Having boundaries means that we do not have to accept inappropriate behavior. Having boundaries means that we are able to allow others to have their brokenness but without being wrapped up in their brokenness. Having boundaries allows us to be free from the drama of others.
Having boundaries allows us to love others the way the Lord instructed us to love others. We willingly, joyfully and wholeheartedly pray for God’s Blessing on them, with no ulterior motives. We don’t try to fix them or make them into something we think they should be. We step back and out of the way of the Holy Spirit, so that the Holy Spirit can work in their lives.
Having boundaries is being willing to let others go. We let them go so that a Power greater than ourselves can restore us all to sanity.
Written by James Miller